you're reading...
Discipleship, Strategy

Forming Small Groups: Deeper than a Nametag

Lucedale MS Group 1-22-11   After giving someone a nametag, a cup of joe and a donut, what more could they want from your small group?  But, then they turn to face a sea of unknown faces. Introductions are made: Glad to see you MikeMaryEarlTammyJohnSiennaSeanAmy… There is no relationship, no recognizable network here. Individuals have come together and are trying desperately to make friends: Are you…Married? Looking? With kids? Employed? Having fun, how? Married? Working? Living where? Interested in anything, anyone? Did I ask if you were married?

   Establishing relationships from scratch is very, very hard work. Downright tiring. Isn’t there a better way to put a small group together?

   Bible Storying works best in small groups that have a trust level built on relationships. When we look at how Jesus and His followers made disciplemakers, we see patterns for gathering groups, not individuals. Jesus encountered the woman at the well who gathered a village. Peter encountered a centurion who gathered his friends and family. Paul and Silas encountered the Philippian jailer who assembled his household.

   Maybe you’ve heard about the Person of Peace, a concept from Luke 10 in which Jesus sent out His disciples to villages in which they were to look for someone upon whom their peace would stay otherwise they were to leave; keep moving on. How can this person who is receptive, has a reputation, and recommends you to others play a role in forming a new small group? The idea Jesus wanted them to get was to connect with groups of people.

Gathering people into small groups is more effective when existing relationships are harnessed. Study pockets of lostness where you live. Where are the relational lines? Family loyalties? Occupational connections? Recreational ties? Groups that are gathered from networks of existing relationships don’t need nametags because they already know each other.

Now about that cup of joe and the donut…


About Mark Snowden

TruthSticks originated from the book I co-authored with the late Avery Willis. Truth That Sticks: How to Communicate Velcro Truths in a Teflon World was the book and this blog and Bible studies have resulted. It's great to be partnering with churches who are committed to making disciple-makers. Request a catalog of Bible studies using orality at SnowdenMinistries@gmail.com.


One thought on “Forming Small Groups: Deeper than a Nametag

  1. That’s a great point. Think about relational ties that people already share and use those to start groups. Thanks for sharing. http://www.refuelblog.com


    Posted by drairwolf | September 5, 2014, 2:24 am

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: